Relation-Shifts…

One of my passions is to understand the connection that we create on a much higher level. This article only touches the surface of this rich and amazing subject, yet it will help you open the door to communication and your personal relationship with yourself, others and Reiki.

The relationship you have with yourself and establish with others – reflects the relationship you will have with Reiki………

First is to realize that Quantum physics, which is the study of the building blocks of the universe, tells us that everything is made up energy. Even our bodies, actually, everything is made up of ‘large groups’ of subatomic particles including plants, trees, thoughts and light. The only difference is the way these particles are grouped together into the building blocks.

The studies now being done in the neurosciences have shown that thoughts are biochemical and electrical. Thoughts are real things. And that our mind is photons of light held in an electromagnetic field.

We as electromagnet beings of energy give off and pick up energy when we interact with other people. And there is a fundamental need in us to connect in some form with one another.

The studies have also shown that we see the world not as it is, but as we are. And when we go to connect or communicate with another person, it is based on our assumptions…

• beliefs
• values
• attitudes
• intentions

The success or failure of the connection will be based on much of this.
There is also a need to have our external world match our internal world and you will often sabotage what is before you if it doesn’t match your inner belief systems.

At the quantum (energetic) level we are all connected and we tend to attract people at the same frequencies that we are. This can be the frequencies of our attitudes, beliefs or feelings at the moment.

Because our brain wants to seek out information that matches its belief system, it will attract other people, places, events and situations that coincide with that belief. We send out a vibration, which is attracted to the same frequencies.
If you have heard the saying, “Birds of a Feather, Flock together”, you can understand the basis of the science. Before modern times with media and advertising, people of the same mindset found each other.

This is why so many people get trapped in remaining at a level that they don’t want to be. They are attracting the same types of people, events and situations into their lives.

To change this, it is important to change the way you communicate with yourself. Look at what you are telling yourself. What are the attitudes that you are repeating. If you state that it is a hard, cruel world, then that is what you will manifest in your world. Subsequently, if you state that there are wonderful and helpful people, you will find them.

It is important to tell and train your self to be open to learning new ideas and thoughts. You need to change your vibration level and then communicate with others at a higher level. Through modern equipment, science has seen the different vibrations that we are projecting.

• Negative emotions vibrate long and slow
• Positive emotions vibrate shorter and faster

For example; resentments, road rage etc, create low frequency vibrations. This creates inability to create your desires.  However, quantum physics has also shown us that we have the amazing power to change our lives.

If you have or are experiencing a long relationship or marriage, then you know that during those “many” years, you have had to ‘grow’ your relationship to keep up with your growth as an individual. Many times it is stretched to the limit. For example; a lot of growth came when I moved into this work. After all, when I married, I was not working as a Reiki Master Teacher, Clairvoyant, Intuitive Communicator and Author.  We must all continue to learn and grow at every level of our being to feel whole, progress and know self-love.

I see this over and over, where someone ‘explodes’ into this energy and their relationship does not survive the shift. One partner outgrows the other or one takes a different exit off the highway they both traveled.  On the other hand, not all relationships are meant to survive long term, however; in fact, hindsight and group studies have shown me many relationships that were originally set up only so that one person could define themselves enough to move forward with their life.  Every relationship is a teacher; ok, well, that is another article by itself, see Mirror Relationships .

The issue of relationships continues to be a big one as we move forward into our evolution. There are the relationships that are built on the ability to grow together…”move into new perceptions and energy together”.

We’ll call these “relation-shifts”.

Common components found in successful relation-shifts include:

• communication
• respect
• trust
• sharing
• individuality
• self-care
• avoid blame and judgment
• do not make assumptions
• perception
• acceptance

A sense of trust is present when each person feels safe to be open, honest and genuine.
Respect helps build this through not judging or criticizing the other’s opinions, feelings and beliefs.
Acceptance is a great form of respect.  This does not mean to just support or accept negative or harmful behaviors.
Listen; everyone has a perception. Take care of yourself. It is your responsibility to know what you want and determine how to achieve that, and be successful. It is not okay to blame someone for your errors, mishaps or failure.  Communicate and assert yourself to become who you see yourself to be.

So let’s talk about your Relation-Shifts with Reiki.

Each one of us has the power to heal. The path to healing lies through greater awareness of and connection with the life-force energy of the Universe.  Reiki is a healing system of great power and simplicity, which opens a doorway to this connection and begins a journey of healing and awareness.

I encourage using Reiki in a variety of settings to increase your experiential understanding of this ancient form of healing. Alignment with yourself and being Reiki is an ongoing process. Willingness to continuously engage in this process furthers your evolution and can lead to the sustained recognition and ultimate experience that you are universal life force.

You create your personal relationship with Reiki starting with your …

• Thoughts and Intention
• Perceptions
• Commitment
• Self-Care
• Avoid blame and Judgment
• Sharing
• Practice

An Initiation or Attunement alone does not make you a Reiki Master. Commitment and the intention to practice Reiki produces increased self-awareness, expanding your relationship with Reiki, with your Self, and with the world. The focus of Reiki or Reiki Master Teacher Training is a process, not just content. Your deep involvement with Reiki does the training, provides experience and promotes your inner wisdom to awaken and promotes mental, spiritual and physical healing as well.

My question to you is, “Do you deserve peace, joy and healing in your life?” Yes you do, we all do.  The self awareness that will be brought forward in your learning; experiencing Reiki at every level will provide you just that… you will be self empowered.  Reiki is a journey starting at the root level of thought and how that affects your energy at every level.

My role is to provide you with tools, witness, mentor, reflect, question, guide, document, and encourage you; which is the purpose of my blog and home study course.  The Reiki energy, your experience, my support, together with your commitment and passion create a synergistic training finely-tuned to you and your needs. The Secret of Reiki Home Study Course empowers you to become the Reiki Practitioner or Reiki Master/Reiki Teacher that you are meant to be, along with insight on how to start a Reiki Business and much more.

If you are a Reiki Teacher, then you will also find a wealth of information to continuing learning and sharing with your clients and students.  The Course on Intuition and a complete manual for you teach and refresh your inner knowing.  I invite you to write and send articles for posting as well as comments of your insights and experiences surrounding Reiki on The Secret Of Reiki blog site.

Share your experiences, ask questions, comment with answers and commit to yourself.  Life is a journey, share your journey today!

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Sharing with Love n Lite,
Kimberlee Cusumano
Reiki Master Teacher/Intuitive Communications